| She lay on my bed, staring at me… I still could not believe I had bagged this very beautiful girl.. Who was always eager to spend time with me. However, on this fateful day, I was going to hear something from her that would scar me for life.“Why is it that, anytime I call, you are always available… is there nothing else you have to do after work?” Listen, She was as beautiful as she was brilliant, and I was heads over heels in love with her. So in love, I could not say NO to her. You see, she was a student in her finals & I was 2 years into my first job. On most days, she’d call me after class that she wanted to come spend the night off campus with me. And I’d always say YES. What else was I supposed to do after “work” if not rest and be with a fine girl? Even on days. I was too tired from work, I still wanted to be with her. I figured she was too beautiful, and If I ever said NO, someone else would swoop in and sweep her off her feet. And here she was… telling me she wished I could say NO to her sometimes, and use my time for something better than just movies and her. You can’t fully understand women (If you’re a woman reading this, you know I am right-ish) It would take a few months for me to see the truth in her words… At this point, we had fallen out and gone our separate ways. I was looking for ways to make money online and that was when it dawned on me: I was using my time more differently and I was saying NO to so many people and many things. At first, saying NO to people was HARD! But guess what? When I started to value my time, others started to value me. I had “clarity of purpose” Which meant, I knew exactly what I wanted and the sacrifices I had to make. Chief among them was how I used my time. This is what so many people lack- clarity of purpose. They do not know what they want. Someone goes… “I want to make money” But when you ask how much, they are unsure. Go further and see how they spend their time and you’d lose your shit! They spend their time doing the most mundane shit!Twitter (mostly consuming, not creating)NetflixBBNPornAnything that’s NOT helping them make money, hoping for a miracle. It’s even worse in super religious (not spiritual) people. They spend 10 hours in church and expect to get rich just because. One of my coaches and mentors “Rachel” is a good example of what a Christian should be. She goes to church, is active in the choir (I know this cause I follow her closely online), but she’s still one of the most competent copywriter I’ve learnt from. The only way she can do all of this is proper TIME MANAGEMENT! Back to you , Do you know what you want? These are some of the issues we would address in the 2 DAYS Time Millionaire Workshop: |